When someone tells you things about someone that you know, please be mindful not to change your interaction with that person based upon the words of someone else.
It is our job each day to “meet people where they are” , and not meet people where someone else did and then judge them on that .
Better yet, if it bothers you that much to where you would change how you interact with that person, why not directly go to that person and talk to them about what you have heard and what you are concerned with. Seems only fair to me and wouldn’t you want the same?
The spirit of sabotage and division is thick in the air and is clothed in the peculiar people, best friends, co-workers, a sister……sad, but true.