Some of the greatest lessons are learned in the darkest hours
If your intentions aren’t to love her and nurture her heart, if your intentions are selfish or temporary while you figure things out, if your intentions toward her aren’t good… just please leave her alone. She doesn’t need another war to fight.
Over the years I have heard the rhetoric about emotionally unavailable men. For a while, I bought in to it, but no more. I have always said that men go after what they want. If a man is not going after you, he doesn’t want you. If a man is playing the hot and cold game, he doesn’t want you. Just remove yourself from the equation. It is easier said than done, but it is necessary for your own emotional health.
Bottomline – there is no such thing as an emotionally unavailable man, he is just not allowing his emotions to connect with you. I promise you…. when he runs across a woman who he feels is worthy of his emotions, he will release them to her.
It doesn’t feel good to want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with you. What is even worse is to waste time and precious emotions over someone who doesn’t want to be with you. You are a magnificent wonder, worthy of the love that you yourself has to offer. Be patient, love yourself, take care of yourself, love will come, until then embrace the peace that comes with letting go of the chaos and uncertainty that comes from someone who can’t love you and cherish you the way that you need and deserve.