It seems as though society has mastered the art of saying goodbye. We can go for years without seeing someone, we can be in their neighborhoods and drive right by their homes without even a visit or phone call, holidays go by and not a card or gift……but as soon as someone becomes deceased here comes the gathering of people. I don’t need spectators to my pain. I guess I am a little funny in my thoughts but if you have not been an active part in helping me to live, don’t you dare come and watch me die.